DATING

Ready for another of my personal dating rules???
I do not do secret friendships/relationships!  Situationships are out of the question.

Let's start with the certainty that we more often than not become like who we associate ourselves with; it is like osmosis and we don't usually know which habit or characteristic we'll infuse.   It  can be absolutely troubling to wake up one day and realize you don't know who you are or how you've strayed so far from your path.

This let's keep our⁰ relationship a secret or secret for now method is used by pedafiles, kidnappers, adulterers, cereal flanderers, essentially a wide range of people with nefarious intent.  

There are  people of who choose to be1 very discreet with their relationships.  However, discreetion is a world of difference away from secrecy.  Discreetion allows us to talk to our friends and family members about us.  It allows for others to know; it's simply not an open book for the world to see.